THE BEAUTY OF WOMAN
89BEAUTIFUL FACES UNDER NIQAFS
ARE WOMEN IS SYMBOL OF EVIL?
Assalammu Alaikum. Wr. Wb.
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Masya Allah! those are only eyes, but even so, we can see the beauty in theirs and make us wondering how wonderful the creation of Allah that lies in all of their faces under those niqafs.
This is a respond to the Post that made by another fellow blogger about Woman. I want to remind every Brothers and Sisters in Islam that beauty should not be exposed by unappropriated ways, because it doesn't need too many "tools" just to shows people what beauty is, and even all you want to do is only to made a point on your post, please don't put a shamed of yourself by showed the world how you see woman in your eyes.
"And mix no truth with falsehood, nor conceal the truth while you know." QS 01:42.
I know out there many women abandon their duty as women and sold themselves to this materialistic world, where you can easily found them with all of their aurat exposed to the world. It is wrong, and surely they will get their own punishment. But please, what is wrong with them let them be (because they already know what is good and what is not) and you should not using their wronged for your own benefit.
Woman is the symbol of beauty. In many story of the world Woman become the reason of the fallen of Man and the greatest Empire ever; start from Eve (Hawa), Helen of Troy, Cleopatra, and even now, the simple example around us, the fallen of who was is the most beloved teacher in Islam for many sisters in Indonesia, but right now have to taste the pain of being abandon by the students because his decision to married again, which is definitely not wrong, but broken the heart of many students who was believe in him. Why it is happened? Is it true what people said that Women is the symbol of evil?
Let's see this first:
"Oh Mankind, be dutiful to Allah, who created you from the single person, and from him He created his wife...." QS 04:1.
"It is He who created you from single person (Adam) and then He was created from him, his wife (Eve)...." QS 07:189.
Woman has been created from Man as her essence. Why?
"And among His signs it this, that His created for you wives from among yourselves, that you might find repose in them, and He was put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for people who reflect."
QS 30:21.
It is have clearly answered right? woman had been made from the part of her husband for her to become everything that he desire the most, so they can live together in love and become the great Oase for each others tired minds.
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excels the other,and because they spend (to support them) from their means....." QS 04:34.
Man, it is your duty to protect Woman. But how can you protecting us, when you keep humiliating us by throwing our sisters bad behavior to our faces and told us to answer why that happened. It is not our fault if some of us doing sinful deed. It is their (Women) choice and their protectors own responsibility. So please, do not asking a question that was not our duty to answers. But maybe, if you want to know why Women keep become the symbol of fallen of Man, let's read what Allah told us all bellow:
"Allah Wishes to lighten (the burden) for you; and Man was created weak (cannot be patient to leave sexual intercourse with Woman)" QS 04:28.
If you want to be honest, it is the reason why many of our sisters become wrong-doer,or why Devil used woman form to seduce man, and why the most beautiful and humble Woman like Helen become the reason of the fallen of Troy; because Man is weak in the name of sex, and Woman naturally is the greatest object of sex and desire for Man. Our beauty that come from your essence make us become hard to resist and then caused you making many mistakes as the result of your effort to reach us. Then some of you, driven by greed, seen this as a chance to get benefit, by sold Women beauty in disgusting ways, when they supposed to become Women protectors.
Now, do you still thinking that Woman is the symbol of chaos when you know (as Man) it is your own weaknesses that make you become so easy to be bait by Woman form?
"And Wish not for the things in which Allah has made some of you to excels others. For Man there is reward for what they have earned, and (likewise) for woman there is reward for what they have earned, and ask Allah of his bounty. Surely Allah is all-knower of everything." QS 04:32.
Dear Brothers, as men you should become Women's protector, not number one hater and punisher. I don't ask much. Just for you to see the sins as the responsibility from the wrong-doers herselves, and not Women in general, so we don't have to see a few Men Sins as Men sins in general. We have our own responsibility on our acts, and that is simply because we are person, not because we are Man and Woman as different kind of Human.
Come to us as our Husband, if you need peaceful life and seek the love and tranquility like Allah had promised us. But don't ever come to us in your dirty desire and greed because it will become the reason of your fall, and once again another Man will shout out loud His accused that, 'This Man fall because of Woman.' I hope Allah forgive you, for what you can't hold in your thought & words, everytime you see Woman.
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Thank You. ;) Yes the pictures is great. Mr. Gurbet Ruzgari really great photographer. He made those ladies still look beautiful without exposed their faces at all. wonderful skill. If you like to see more of his work here his address
http://my.opera.com/GurbetRuzgari. I hope you like it.
nice hub, Freya...keep up your good writing, about Islam and moslem world, so people will know that moslems are not only terrorists.
Thank you, sister. I'll try my best, Insya Allah. :)
nice hub,very good points about the responsibilities of men as protectors. May God forgive all of us for we all have sinned and come short in this life.
Thank you, Christine.
Assalammu Alaikum. Wr. Wb.
I give my big appreciation for you who post about the beautiful woman trough the Islam aspect. It good for me, when we are facing the glamorous and the glitter fashion around who don't cover their body. It become a public consume. You have good point. thanks
Wassalamu Alaikum, Wr. Wb.
Waalaikum Sallam. Wr. Wb. :)
Thank you. In my thought it is important to Muslim Men to stick on the Islamic way when they think about woman.
Not allowed equal with you should not look either. But unfortunately, I did meet several Muslim Men who really love to enjoy porn or nudity but mocking women in general because small number of women making what they already enjoy to watch. It is hypocrisy. They should feel shame of themselves. Thanks for reading my Hub. :)
nice hub walhi keep up sister
Thanks, Brother. Inshaallah. :)
A congratulation price and thanking I do..The humans happy does beautiful..The you are doing this beautifully...A repeat thankings
Mr. Ruzgari, it is really honor to be visiting by you in my Hub, Thank you very much. ^_^ I'm your fans and really enjoy your works. Thank you already sharing it to us. And once again, thank you to let me using your works in my article.
They are very beautiful women, why do they have to cover themselves? Is it not an honor for a man to be married to someone who is beautiful, and someone he is proud to be around. A veil is to hide ugliness, and not beauty.
The righteous secret of beauty is in its hidden characteristic.
Else that enigmatic energy dissipates, becomes void, hollow, fictitious, non-existent, weightless, worthless, unimpressive, unbeneficial, unblessed, valueless, worthy only to be discarded, dumped, frowned, kept away or aside, as it starts breeding: evil no sooner, exposed, exhibited, .....
Rookie, Beauty is beyond the skin. By wearing a veil, the woman want men see them as person, not as her face. Not everyone will understand, but unless the man who want to marry her will understand, and that is the perfect man for her.The man who see her beyond her veil.
Don't you notice, sometimes, when beautiful woman appear so hot and sexy with minim outfit and thick cosmetic, they hiding something ugly inside? Not all of course, but several of them like that. Like buying a food from beautiful packaged but found that everything inside it already rotten, and become big dissappoinment.
You don't like veil women it is ok. Don't look, don't commenting, it is not your business if they don't want you to see their face. If they look ugly to you, so let them be. They do not mind at all, trust me. :)
MdShafiqM, yes, it is true. thank you.
A noble woman is a beautiful woman veiled or unveiled:)
Of course Mentalist Acer. I never said become unveiled make woman not noble, and by the way I don't wear veil.
Wearing a veil is their choice, to submissive to Allah more than the other, and to live inside modesty. They are high morality person and definitely not dangerous so they should not become victims of suspicion because they chose to cover their face.
Islam in original of quran and hadist really respect to women and give challenges for women to develop their personality that usefull for herself, family , islam and country. so lets her develop well with all islam value on her.
Very very pretty. Like Freya!
Rismayanti, Assalammu alaikum. Nice to see you in my Hub ^_^. Yes, I am agree. Let Muslimah bloom like flower in Jannah. Beautiful, in every aspect of hers. Thank you, Rismayanti.
Micky, (blush) thank you! You are so sweet. :) I wish I'm that beautiful, but I'm grateful with the way I look, alhamdullilah.
MashaAllah sister, May Allah reward you in paradise for your effort, and I do pray to Allah (swt) to protect us from any evuls. Amiin.
Shegarlynn, alhamdullilah. Ameen.... Insha Allah, Allah will listen to our pray, Sister. Thank you. ^_^
Beautiful hub, What I take from it is that God (whichever one we believe in) Made us all, and we are all beautiful in his eyes so we should love and respect one another. And it is an important lesson, that women have a lot more to offer than their bodies and what they look like, All women (veiled or not, it doesn't matter) should be appreciated for who they are. Great Hub!
Literature Fairy, thank you for visited me and read this. Yes, it is true, Women should appreciated for who they are! ^_^
A womans beauty is for her husband and her husband alone.
It is good for a woman to be covered from head to toe.
In addition it helps to quell the sin of lust that leads to a society of porn addicts and little girls who grow up to dress like harlots.
Very true. Thank you, Misterdiggs. And thank you for reading this. ^_^
very good job freya i really thank of you keep gooing on may GOd success u more i pray for you.
I am glad you like it. Thank you very much, Raza. And welcome to my Hub. ^_^
it's nice.
please tell about brhaviour between sisters.
what islam tells hw 2 sisters shoud b?
their do's &don'ts.
the photos r nice.
bt am having a doubt regarding whether muslim women can thread or pluck their eyebrows?pls answer.
am in doubt
This was beautiful. =)
Ah, Nana, Please forgive me. I just realized I have unanswered comments in here.
Ok, I try my best to answer you. :)
Let's start with plucking eyebrow first. We are lucky I have this note written by fellow Hubber that I got from Facebook which consisted by great number of sources. So, I will copy it here for you.
For my sister, Muslima61, thank you for provided me this article. Love you, Sis!
OHHHHH .... MY EYEBROWS
Can we pluck? Can we tidy? Lets have a look at what our learned brothers have to say on the matter.
May Allah bless, forgive, and guide us all.
Most authorities agree that it is haram to remove hair from the eyebrows. Some say that it is halal to remove hair between the eyebrows, which is not the same as changing the eyebrows themselves. There is also an opinion that coloring the hair to match the skin (maybe like bleaching it?) is halal.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
It says in Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah (17/133): “It is not permissible to remove the hair of the eyebrows because this is the namas (plucking) for which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed those who do it, and it is a kind of changing the creation of Allaah, which is the action of the Shaytaan. If a woman's husband tells her to do it, she should not obey him, because it is a sin, and there is no obedience to any created being if it involves disobedience towards the Creator. Rather obedience should only be with regard to things that are good and proper, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said.”
Secondly:
It is permissible to remove any hair from the face apart from the hair of the eyebrows.
It says in Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah (17/130): “The evidence that it is permissible for a woman to remove hair from her body is the basic principle which states that it required for her to adorn herself for her husband. There is no evidence to suggest that this is not allowed, apart from the prohibition on al-namas (plucking), which means removing hair from the eyebrows.”
And it also says (5/197): “What is the Islamic ruling on removing hair that grows between the eyebrows? The Committee replied: It is permissible to pluck it, because it is not part of the eyebrows.”
And Allaah knows best.
What is the hair that it is permissible to remove and the hair that it is not permissible to remove?
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
With regard to removing hair or not removing it, the scholars divide hair into three categories:
1 – Hair which we are commanded to remove or shorten. This is known as Sunan al-Fitrah, such as removing the pubic hairs, trimming the moustache and plucking the armpit hairs. That also includes shaving or cutting the hair of the head during Hajj or ‘Umrah.
The evidence for that is the hadeeth of ‘Aa'ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) who said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Ten (actions) are part of the fitrah [natural inclinations of man]: trimming the moustache, letting the beard grow, using the siwaak (tooth-stick), rinsing the nose with water, clipping the nails, washing the finger joints, plucking the armpit hairs, shaving the pubes and washing oneself with water after relieving oneself.”
Zakariyya said: Mus'ab said: And I forgot the tenth but it may have been rinsing the mouth with water.
Narrated by Muslim, 261
2 – Hair which we are forbidden to remove, which includes the eyebrows. The action of removing the hair of the eyebrows is called al-namas. It is also forbidden to remove the hair of the beard.
The evidence for that is the hadeeth of ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas'ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Allaah has cursed the woman who does tattoos and the one who has them done, the woman who plucks eyebrows (al-naamisah) and the one who has it done (al-mutanammisah), and the one who files her teeth for the purpose of beauty, altering the creation of Allaah.”
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5931; Muslim, 2125)
And it was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Umar said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Be different from the mushrikeen: let your beards grow and trim your moustaches.”
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5892; Muslim, 259)
al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
The naamisah is the woman who removes hair from the face and the mutanammisah is the one who asks to have that done. This action is haraam, unless a woman develops a beard or moustache, in which case it is not haraam to remove it, rather that is mustahabb in our view.
Sharh al-Nawawi li Saheeh Muslim, 14/106
3 – Hair concerning which the texts are silent and do not say whether it is to be removed or left as it is, such as hair on the legs, hands, cheeks or forehead.
There is some difference of scholarly opinion concerning this.
Some said that it is not permissible to remove it, because removing it implies changing the creation of Allaah, as Allaah tells us that the Shaytaan said:
“ ‘and indeed I will order them to change the nature created by Allaah'”[al-Nisa' 4:119 – interpretation of the meaning]
Some said that this is one of the things concerning which nothing was said, so the ruling is that it is allowed. It is permissible to leave it or to remove it, because whatever is not mentioned in the Qur'aan or Sunnah is permissible.
This was the view favoured by the scholars of the Standing Committee and by Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen. See Fataawa al-Mar'ah al-Muslimah, 3/879
It says in Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah:
(a) There is no sin on a woman if she removes hair on her upper lip, thighs, calves and arms. This is not part of the tanammus (plucking) that is forbidden.
(Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah, 5/194, 195)
(b) The Committee was asked:
What is the Islamic ruling on plucking the hair between the eyebrows?
They replied:
It is permissible to pluck it, because it is not part of the eyebrows.
(Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah, 5/197)
The Standing Committee was asked:
What is the ruling on a woman removing hair from her body?
They replied:
It is permissible for her to do that, apart from the hair of the eyebrows and head. It is not permissible for her to remove the hair of her head or to remove any part of the eyebrows, whether by shaving or any other means.
Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah, 5/194
We should comment on the questioner's words “I know that plucking the eyebrows is haraam and removing facial hair is also.”
As for plucking the eyebrows, this is haraam and is a major sin, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed those who do it.
But as for removing facial hair, there is a difference of opinion among the scholars as to whether it is permissible to remove it. This is based on their various understandings of the word al-namas.
Some scholars said that al-namas means removing any facial hair, and they did not limit it to the eyebrows. Others were of the view that al-namas refers to removing the hair of the eyebrows only. This was the view favoured by the Standing Committee as is clear from the fatwas quoted above.
It says in Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah:
Al-namas means plucking the hair of the eyebrows, which is not permissible because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed the woman who plucks eyebrows (al-naamisah) and the one who has it done (al-mutanammisah).
Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah, 5/195
And Allaah knows best.
Allah wants us to look neat and tidy, and by trying to appear neat and tidy we are not distorting Allah's creation, rather we are only enhancing it. Therefore, if your eyebrows are unusually thick or unwieldy then you can straighten them out.
Elaborating on this, we'd like to cite for you the following Fatwa issued by Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, who states:
“The word used in the Hadith is nams in Arabic, which means plucking the eyebrows. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) considered plucking as distorting the creation of Allah. This was the practice resorted to by prostitutes in the time of pre-Islamic jahiliyya (ignorance) and it is still used by women of loose morals.
However, scholars who have studied the issue in detail have concluded that if a person's eyebrows are unusually thick or unwieldy, then he or she can straighten them out. This is not considered nams or plucking. Allah wants us to look neat and tidy, and by trying to
Hello, SognoPiccolo. Thank you. I am glad you like it. :)
Nana, regarding your question about sister, I think I need more explanation about it more than what you had already asked so I can answer it properly, dear.
Eyes of these women can speak. Beautiful pictures and very deep hub.
Arlecchino: Thank you. Nice to meet you here. :)
Wonderfully written and very informative..Thanks for sharing..May peace be upon you..Inshallah.
Thank you very much for reading this. May peace upon you too, Insha Allah. :)
allah completes the every needs of all worlds
Indeed. That is why we should always be grateful. :)
A very nice piece of an article. Please do write more on these topics.
Upal19: Thank you. I'm glad you like it. Insha Allah, I'll try. Insha Allah, Allah will give me more inspiration. Insha Allah. Thank you. ^_^
SUBHANALLAH: Secret of Successful WOMEN amongst US.
BLESSED BE JEWELS LIKE YOU: FREYA CESARE; deserving Queen; AND YOUR KIND BEING RELIGIOUSLY STRONG HEARTED, CLEAR AND CONFIDENT MUSLIM GIRLS & WOMEN OF INTELLECT AND POSSESS THE GUTS TO UNSHRUGGEDLY REVEAL THE CONVICTION ON BELIEFING, PRACTICE AND PROPAGATING THE TRUE BLESSED KNOWLEDGE ON ISLAAM. NO WONDER YOU ARE THE FOUNDATIONS ON WHICH BLESSED, SACRED, PROSPOROUS HOMES ARE BUILT.
MUSLIM WOMEN therefore are absolutely exclusive, now you understand how they excel in the World and surely the Hereafter they all shall be in HEAVEN. No wonder, in Islaam, importance Education to Women is compulsory to Women too.
Mashallah.This is indeed a one complete article about woman and her relation with the man; and how does ALLAH swt views both man and woman.The fact woman is blessed by her creator if she remains moderate in relation with her attire. Unfortunately today's woman has abandoned this and has chosen to dress what is inappropriate in ALLAH'S sight.
Your article is eye opener to lots of women out there sister.GOD bless you.
MdShafiqM: Alhamdullilah, if I really able to do my role as Muslimah perfectly in this world, that will be my bless. Truly blessing, alhamdulilah.
Yes, I do believe the important of education and knowledge for woman, because as simple as it seem for woman living inside Man's protective and caring hands,in fact it never simple or easy at all.
Woman have so much responsibility as a wife and mother, which is to make sure Muslim new generation inside her house will grow into great muslim, mostly in this chaotic world. Also to make sure she will always able to honor herself and Her God's order, by doing every single things inside her house with dignity and honesty, and also always pushing her husband to become wonderful Muslim and greatest husband himself.
Both woman and man, they have different role inside the family, but the obligation remain the same, which is to submit to Allah and stick with His teaching, no matter what. Woman have to be wise to be understand their role and the real meaning of being free or oppress, mostly in the world where human logic seem always have reverse definition about everything with Islam.
Thank you, Sir, for your kind words. Alhamdullilah. ^^
mtariqsattar: Alhamdullilah, I am happy if my works can help our sisters and brothers to understand more about our religion. Thank you for reading this, brother. ^^
Freya , I am a bit old fasioned, I love the imagination, and in the eye's alone of these women there is so much beauty that it actually hurts to look at them. That is what a decent hearted man thinks of. I must come back to your hub here to re-read it to truely understand the muslim woman. Be well beutiful daughter! Hugs to you from the words we both love.
Ahorseback: I am one of old fashioned woman too!Hehehe
And yes, decent man is all Muslim woman wants to have. Man who know how to appreciate woman as human and loveable companion in life, not only the tools to his pleasure.
Many muslim woman covering their face so man can stop to think about the exquisite lips she has and how good it is to kiss it; so he can start to considering her thought more. Muslim woman wear loose garment so man can wipe the image of her alluring body under her garment and start to think using his brain. This is as simply as this; the reason behind Muslim woman's cover. Other than that, Muslim woman just like any other woman; simply irresistible! LOL.
Too bad, in the world today it seem, muslim or not muslim, decent man is rare. Very very rare!
Thank you, Sir, for reading this. I hope this hub can make non muslim understand a little bit about the world behind Muslima covers. ^^ Hug back, for my poetic father.
Nice Hub
Really inspired
Shakalery: Thank you. ^^
SALAAM FREYA CESARE & ALL!
Salam, MdshafiqM. ^^
SALAAM FREYA,
DO YOU THINK MOST MUSLIM WOMEN ARE EXCELLING,
WHILST THE MEN ARE NOT; TO THAT EXTENT; COMPETENT ENOUGH, THE WORLD OVER?
I like your thoughts and the way you think for Muslim women, is real and great.But I think you should have to be open for the whole female class----i.e. all girls,all women from all religions and of the world,for the same thoughts and the way of thinking for women not only of Muslim religion but for the women of the whole world as well.I'm sorry if you hurt by my such a though.I do respect all females of the world.Thanks.
assalam o alaikum Freya Cesare, i am new hubber here and let me say it is your hubs that made me give voice to my thoughts. all your hubs are awesome. i published my first hub today. i just wanna thank you for your great work.
MShadiqM. Salam. I'm really sorry for the late reply.
That is interesting question you have there and no, I don't think this way.
In this post I showed man the wrongness in his behaviour. But I will never hesitated to showed woman the wrongness in her behaviour if I caught one. Because I respect both man and woman as my brothers and sisters and fellow Muslim.
Man and Woman is equal in the sight of Allah as human being. None of one is lower than the other. But as all ship need captain or Country need president, every house need a leader so Allah put man become woman's protector in the house by gave them different roles and duty according to these roles, so there is no fighting over who will leading who.
Each roles have it's own benefit along with it's own responsibility. Some of these benefit might deluded several people and some of these responsibility might lead several people to came out with different assumption about the origin of it, and this is how some people bent their own step to the wrong path.
Man and woman have different ability in facing problems in their life. Woman more intuitive and emotional, while man is more logic and using their sense as their best tools to processing everything they see.
This tendencies are needed for each one of sex to be able to fulfil their special responsibility, not because one is weaker than the other.
The differentiation also important so they can completed each other in their journey through this life. again, not to make one become weaker than the other.
If one have right as the protector, then the other have right as to be spoiled under protection, not to be bully like many people think it should be.
If one have responsibility to follow then the other have responsibility to provide, not to treat the follower as worthless creature bellow him because the only reason there is woman under his protection is because Allah grant her to him to be cherish and love for the rest of her life by him.
Together, they should become perfect harmony. alone, they will lack something. And this is why I believe no man better than woman like no woman better than man.
Both have capability to be great as much as they also have ability to destroying their own goodness.
Yes, man and woman have different display of wrongness but again it simply because they have different obligation and right. It doesn't mean the one is better than the other.It is simply because they are human being.
I hope this answering your question.
Thank you, brother.
niteen123, I like your thought either and yes, if your read another hub of mine, you will see several hub which I written for all people of all religion. I tried my best to do that and will try again. Too bad I really lack of time at this moment to be able to write more.
The reason why this one dedicated for Muslim because it is written as the answer for one particular post written by Muslim male which dare to scolding all women for several women behaviour. I hope by reading this, many men understand to be more careful on how they think about another sex and then treat them inhuman base only on their own assumption. Man and woman,it is not their sex which make them become awful person, but simply their rusting heart and corrupting mind.
have a nice day there and thank you for reading this.
Rabia Khitran, wa alaikum salam sis. Welcome to Hubpages. It is very happy for me to meet another Muslim writer in here. Alhamdullilah, if my writing can move someone to write more about Islam, Muslim and Muslima. This is good to share our thought to friends and gain knowledge from it. Thank you very much for reading my hubs and I can't wait to reading yours also.
Thank you Ferya for such a nice welcom. i am not an experienced writer and here in hub pages i published my first hub 'love marriage and islam'. i have a great stock of thoughts but to express ones thoughts in words is somewhat technical. well your writings are really a great source of inspiration to me sis. i wish the whole muslim youth be like you. keep it up...
Alhamdullilah. that is quite honour for me for able inspiring someone like this. Thank you, sis. you make me blushing now.
Yes, sometimes I experiencing similar problem, having too many thought but not able to write it down because lack of patient or simply lack of words. The worst of it is when I ended feel bored of tried write it down and let the thought passed by undocumented. Awful.
I supposed, just like any other creative work, writing need more than just technique; it need ability to focus on one thing and bear it until the end, which I lack. So, don't worry, sis. you are not alone in this.
Keep writing. Keep trying unless. technique will easily being polished by time, and you will be fine.
The women in the photos do appear to be very beautiful. However, they are covered with alot of make-up so their real beauty is distorted. They look like glamour models from new york city not Muslim women. I agree with the post that a husband is a protector and provider and that it is fine for a women to adorn her self for her husband. The beauty of a women should be given to her husband not to other men.
Mathew James: They are indeed glamour models. But unless they can be an example how woman do not need to be almost naked just to be see as a beautiful lady.
Thank you, Sir. ^^
yes Freya, they are good examples of how a woman can be very beautiful.
Thank you. ^_^
Wow those women are beautiful...great hub
Thank you, Debbie. ^-^
wow freya,you are indeed blessed with knowledge and profound wisdom.very nice hub.voting up and sharing.
Uzma, alhamdullilah I have enough knowledge to write this, but I still far from knowledgeable. Far from it. Thank you for reading, sis.
shamelabboush Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago
That's wonderful hub :) Those women are really nice looking and charming...